Wednesday, October 9, 2013

The Wedding Day is Near

Hello all,

Life has been busy lately for us. Our daughters wedding is now less than two weeks away. I have my Tux, Nina has her dress, the preparations are almost all complete and about all I have left to do is finish my speech for the reception. I am really looking forward to that! Here is the first part I have written:

Welcome and thank you to everyone for being here to share in this joyous occasion. I am the father of the bride and now is the time when I get to stand up and say a few words…. other than “yes sweetie, I think that would be perfect”.  
There are several significant moments in a life with daughters. The day they are born; the day they take their first steps; the day they get their own car; and then there is that day they say, Mommy, Daddy, I met this boy named Donald.

Donald, when I heard you two met though a dating service, I thought, “a dating service” my goodness this guy must be really desperate to have to pay some outfit to find him girls! I thought “why couldn’t he meet someone like we did in my dating days…. at a bar!  Or the scariest way of all (and BTW the way, it was how I met Nina) on a blind date.
Nina, before we went on that blind date, I never heard  any one say “she has a great personality and all the girls love her”. I was told you were attractive, really nice and a whole lot of fun. That was a perfect description Nina, because you were then and still are all those things and much, much more. You are my best friend and the love of my life; thank you for marrying me.

Nina and I both really like Donald, and know we are truly blessed for that. I plan to say more about my little girl and although I have been dreading this day since the day she was born (I cry every time in the Father of the Bride" movies and told her I thought "The Little Mermaid" had a sad ending because Ariel left her father and the ocean!) but instead, I find myself being really, really, happy for them. They are so much in love and the look of joy on each of their faces just radiates bright as the sun!  So I plan to walk her down the isle sharing her joy and any tears will happy ones.

She is fluent in Spanish, and I wanted to conclude with a special moment to remember between her and I, so I plan to close by saying:  "Nunca olvide, tu hijo es tu hijo hasta que se casa con su esposa, pero tu hija es tu hija para toda tu vida." which translates as "Never forget, your son is your son til he marries his wife, but your daughter's your daughter, for all of your life".  To which I say, AMEN!!!!!!

Blessings to all,
George    

12 comments:

  1. Beautiful and wonderful, George. !Felicidades! !Alegria and felicidades!

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  2. Oh I hope you put the part about the Little Mermaid in there and your crying and now how you are not!

    I will be thinking of you all. I hope the weather is as beautiful as your daughter that day George!

    Much love
    willie

    PS. This reminded me of a quote I stumbled upon, " I want a marriage as beautiful as my wedding day"

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    1. Hi Willie, Indeed I am planning to use the Little Merrmaid part in the speech, and I like the quote you found so much I will probably use it too. Thanks for all the good wishes!

      love,
      george

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  3. This is such a beautiful post and speech George, just perfect :) Wishing you all the best for the big day.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Thanks Roz, I appreciate your comments a lot. Next weekend is the big day. I will let you know how it goes!

      Hugs,
      George

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  4. I love your speech George and wish you the most beautiful day to give your daughter to her new husband as well as have him join your family forever.

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    1. Hi Susie, thank you so much. Since Nina and I have only daughters, it will be fun to have a boy in the family get-togethers!

      Blessings,
      George

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  5. Your speech is sweet, poignant and funny - so perfect! I hope that you and Nina (and of course your daughter) have a totally wonderful day.

    ps: I absolutely love your take on the 'sad' ending of Little Mermaid! You're such a sweet father!

    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Cali, thank you so much. I am probably one of the few that thought the ending of the Little Mermaid was sad, lol. My girls are the light of my life and always will be, so if they are happy then how can I be anything else? Duh, rocket science, right....:-)

      hugs,
      George

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  6. Just read this George, and for me it is the pride of a wonderful Dad that is shining through here. I understand your feelings so well - our daughter has Dan in the palm of her hand. It will also be good to have another male in the family.

    I hope your day dawns fair and bright, that everything goes according to plan, that you remember your speech without needing notes, that the champagne is chilled perfectly, and most of all that you all have a most wonderful time, especially you, as you proudly walk your daughter up the aisle.

    Hugs

    Ami

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    1. Ami, indeed, I am a proud dad. We like our future son-in-law and yes it will be good to have another guy around during family get togethers. Less than 48 hours to go! Thanks for all the good wishes, I will let you know how it goes!

      Hugs,

      George

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