Monday, September 15, 2014

Punishment Spanking


Nina spanks me for fun and we enjoy an occasional scenario spanking. Those spankings are always administered bare and result in a red and sore bottom, however she almost never gives me a punishment spanking.  Two days ago however, that is just what I got.  

                                                                OUCH!
We were both in a bad mood when I got home. We greeted each other pleasantly enough and after supper turned on the television. Nina made a comment about the show we were watching. I did not agree and I told her she was being way too critical and reminded her it was only a TV show. She did not like that and we exchanged words until things escalated to a real heated argument. Stupid I agree now, but at the time I was not in a mood to be agreeable!



We finally settled down but really had not made up and that is how we concluded the evening. The next day I had the opportunity to reflect on my previous evening’s behavior and I had to admit I was wrong. I told her I realized I had been disrespectful and was making a big deal out of nothing. I said I was sorry for spoiling our evening and suggested perhaps a spanking was in order. Nina immediately agreed with me saying I had most definitely been naughty. I was ready to get it over with, but she said she was tired and we would wait until the next day. Was she tired; yes. Did she want me to have to have to anticipate what I was in for….again I suspect the answer is yes.  It is never a good idea to piss off your wife!
   
                                                      
The next day we were both off work and so she said it was time for my spanking. We went into our bedroom and she selected her large wooden paddle while I undressed. I bent over and grabbed my knees to await my fate. She started spanking my bare bottom with exuberance and very little rest between the spanks. After a while she stopped and I thought I was finished only to discover she was just resting and changing sides. She then started again and it wasn’t long until I was hollering and dancing while trying to stay in position. My posterior was feeling her wrath and though my bottom was on fire and I was hopping up and down exclaiming lots of “ow’s” and “that hurts”, I knew I was getting the spanking I deserved and thankful she made me wait and didn't spank me while she was really angry! I don’t think I want to find out what that would be like!

After what seemed like forever, she finally stopped and with a red and sore bottom I apologized again and thanked her for spanking me. She said all was forgiven and remarkably the rest of the day we were both in a really great mood. At the end of the day we even both commented on how much fun we had together and how much more agreeable I was after being spanked.



I told her when I am grouchy a spanking will instantly improve my mood every time. She said she would definitely keep that in mind. Perhaps a few punishment spankings will be happening now and no longer be such a rare occurence!

Hugs and Blessings,
George

10 comments:

  1. So sorry you got such a hard spanking George but it seems to have done you both a lot of good. Still haven't figured out how it is that a spanking clears the air but it sure does doesn't it. ;) My question is...do you want punishment spankings to be less rare?

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Cat you ask a good question. I thought about it and decided I would rather get more punishment spankings and resume happy times than to have to endure the extended recovery that it takes without the punishment spankings, so yes. Thankfully, Nina and I don't get into this kind of conflict very often, but if it does happen, I hope she spanks away all the negative vibes!

      Hugs and Blessings to you,
      George

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  2. To spank you hard was absolutely the right thing to do. Only, between you and me, I shall most definitely not be encouraging such a spanking for a very long time!

    I don't think I ever will understand the true significance of a punishment spanking. The jury in my head is still 'out' on that one. The thing is, it works. It sets you up to move on, forgive each other, and fills you with 'feel good' factor.

    I find, like you, that it often takes just a small thing to start a MEGA argument. Thankfully we don't have many, but when we do it isn't pleasant for either of us. I am so grateful we discovered that spanking helps put your 'good head' back on.

    As an aside, 'How's the poor old butt now, George?" (hahahaha!) Still a little 'glowy'!

    Many hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, I agree that it was definitely the right thing. We also rarely get that cross with each other, but it sure did the trick. I too have no answer about how it works, but whatever, I am just thankful we were able to get back to the "feel good" place....that is except for my butt. Lets just say that every time I sat down for the next day and a half I was reminded of what had occurred!

      Hugs,
      George

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  3. You and I talked about this at length one time I believe George. How the 'punishment' spanking isn't so much about the punishment but about settling the feelings inside: tempering the emotions that start off as anger, and come out as snippiness, later changing to 'not right' and off balance. To be sure unsettled is every present during both of these stages, but it really amounts to flushing out the unbalanced feelings within -leading to a better connection.

    I too know that feeling of 'having a pebble in your shoe' some days. Honestly it would be so much better to 'bend over' and take it out, or even communicate that it is in there bothering you. I am getting better about it as is Barney about making sure it is removed before it breaks the skin. Our situation is different ( lol...then again who's ISN'T ?) so I have taken to saying to B, " I am really crabby today ". Usually this leads to a conversation about the 'whys' and sometimes it eventually leads to a spanking. But either way, we both are aware.

    I hope nothing but clear skies for you! LOL. What those skies look like - you choose!

    love willie

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    1. Hi Willie, yes we have talked and we both agree the re-connect aspect of a punishment spanking is more about feelings than anything else. It is amazing how those feelings are almost instantly reset after a spanking!

      Nina has on more than one occasion told me to communicate with her what is bothering me. I know you are both right but sometimes I just want to go sit in my cave and pout! :-)

      Thanks for the wish for clear skies.........sure makes the journey easier. But after the stormy skies pass we can at least enjoy looking at the rainbow after the storm.

      love,
      George

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  4. Hi George, I'm sorry about the argument and hard spanking. Seems it was what you both needed though in order to clear the air. The magical power of a spanking to resolve issues and to reset us never ceases to amaze me lol.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, thankfully Nina and I don't get cross that often, but you're right, it was just what we both needed! After the spanking we were both reset to good feelings, and that really is magic!

      Perhaps the paddle is really a magic wand in disguise! Abracadabra and poof....ok not that quick because her "magic wand" must have had a low battery because she had to apply it repeatedly to get it to work! lol

      Hugs,
      George

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  5. Hi George, :) I don't know why this stuff works, it just blows my mind, but it does!! Sorry you had that kind of spanking, but it looks like your Nina was right in there for you. And for her too. I am glad that it made things to right for you both. It is just so so weird how this all works...

    Hope that your behind is feeling better. Bag o' frozen peas is a nice soother. LOL! I am happy for you and Nina, and the love that you share. Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Hi Katie, thanks for stopping by. Yes it was just what the Dr. ordered and "Dr." Nina was quite happy to administer the required "treatment"! She even made certain I got a large enough dose to cure what was ailing me! lol

      Thanks for the recommendation about the bag o' frozen peas. I will try that next time.

      Hugs,
      George

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